Being a Benchwarmer obviously means I don’t play a lot. In fact, the name “Benchwarmer” means exactly what it implies: to keep the seat warm. But being a benchwarmer does allow for a lot of time to sit back and observe. I’ve observed that athleticism requires a lot of hard work, accountability, and the drive to be the best you can be out of respect for yourself and your team.
This last year, I’ve seen a plethora of local athletes who’ve put in more sweat, time, and muscle than anyone else. The skill they exhibit in their respective sports has netted them something any serious, passionate athlete dreams about: an athletic scholarship.
Hundreds of thousands of athletes hope for a chance, but only those who make a serious impression are selected to continue at the next level. Needless to say, landing an athletic scholarship is no easy feat.
Being afforded the opportunity to be a collegiate athlete is an honor; in light of that, athletes should strive to make the most of this privilege.
Our local athletes going on to play in college have been through the ups and downs, the tears, the injuries, and hours of practices. They’ve worked tirelessly to reach this point, but it’s important to understand that the real work is just beginning.
Beginning a student athlete career is daunting—and unfortunately, the NCAA has yet to develop a manual for incoming athletes. But lucky for you all, before I was a Benchwarmer, I was a collegiate athlete. With that in mind, I’ve come up with my top five tips for succeeding as a new college athlete.
1. Treat it like a job
First and foremost, future athletes should decide how to approach their new situation. To me, the best way to approach your athletics is to treat it like a job because in reality, that’s what you’ve just landed: your first job.
As an athlete, you’re being paid for your skill, to be committed to the team and represent the university to the best of your ability both academically and athletically. The school is paying you money to be responsible and hard working.
Therefore, slacking off, inappropriate behavior, and poor grades aren’t tolerated. It’s up to you to decide whether it’s worth it to jeopardize your playing time and your scholarship—and that’s a good question to ask yourself before making any decisions.
2. Build a foundation and find a balance
It would also be wise for athletes to develop a foundation—familiarize yourself with your team, your surroundings, and your new schedule. You’ll be in new territory, and it helps to know what you’re up against and what’s expected of you.
Most importantly, freshman athletes will more than likely experience an overwhelming sense of freedom. I know I did. Your parents aren’t around now, and to a certain degree, you can do and behave as you choose. While college is integral in cultivating independence, it’s important to balance all aspects of your new life.
As a collegiate athlete, you’ll be up against classes, practices, games, and travel. While being a student athlete is time consuming and often more complex than advertised, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have a social life.
Balance comes down to organizing your priorities correctly: school, athletics (your job), and a social life. Don’t lose sight of these priorities or upset the balance, as you could end up in trouble or fall behind.
3. Ask for help
If anyone told you that adjusting to a new academic and athletic load was easy, they were lying. You will struggle as you find your way, but remember that you’re not the only one struggling.
If you’re having a hard time, don’t be afraid or ashamed to ask for help. Colleges have a plethora of resources available for student athletes, including tutors and professors who are always willing to help. Upper-class teammates are also a good resource as they’ve survived their freshman year and are good outlets of advice.
4. Don’t use athletics as an excuse
I can’t tell you how many times I witnessed athletes at my university coming to class blatantly late, not paying attention, or just blowing off class altogether.
Your new game schedule will account for a lot of missed classes, so don’t skip school more than necessary, and don’t blame your irresponsibility on your role as an athlete.
Just because you’re a student athlete doesn’t mean you get to take exceptions to the rules. You’re expected to show up to class and perform just like everyone else.
Ideally, student athletes should act as role models on campus.
5. Have fun—duh!
There will be times you need to reward yourself and have some fun. College is supposed to be one of the more rewarding and important life experiences, especially as an athlete—so make the most of your time with your teammates, travel, and school.
For our local athletes headed for college play, you’re about to embark on a new journey, and you’ll have your work cut out for you. The same hard work, responsibility, dedication, and determination that awarded you success in high school and ultimately landed you a scholarship will need to continue in order for you to be successful.
This is the opportunity of a lifetime, and it’s crucial to remember that once you’re done with collegiate athletics, it’s over and you can never get it back—and I can guarantee you will miss it some day.
You’ve been given a tremendous gift; cherish and learn from it. Always remember you’re there to represent the school and ultimately further your education.
Freshman athletes who find balance, remember their purpose, and give their best to the school and the team will find the most success and will certainly have the most rewarding experience.
But what do I know? I’m just a Benchwarmer.
Staff Writer Kristina Sewell says congratulations to all 2013 area athletes on their way to the next level! Contact her at ksewell@santamariasun.com.
This article appears in May 30 – Jun 6, 2013.